The Summer Debrief: What Fathers Learned by Taking Things Away
Back in the spring we talked about parenting intentionally through the summer. This week we came back to a simple question: how did it actually go?
Compassionate communication, conflict, and civil discourse at home and beyond.
Back in the spring we talked about parenting intentionally through the summer. This week we came back to a simple question: how did it actually go?
Fathers discuss aligned parenting, the long game of consistent boundaries, and the transformative practice of repair — apologizing to both children and spouse as a reflection of God's own model of restoration.
Drawing on the tradition of catechesis, fathers worked through short theological definitions — kingdom, discipleship, grace, character — to rehearse with kids in the car or at bedtime.
Fathers share honest conversations with their kids about lust, shame, and godly manhood — with tools like shoulder-to-shoulder car rides and a vision rooted in joyful, sacrificial responsibility.
A reflective exercise adapted from Viktor Frankl helps fathers map the highs and lows of their own lives, building self-awareness they can then draw on to open richer, more meaningful conversations with their children.
Fathers considered how to raise kids who follow Jesus's example of genuine connection — seeing shared humanity beneath disagreement and engaging others with both grace and truth rather than contempt.
The group works through a four-step NVC process — observe, feel, need, request — and explores how slowing down, modeling emotional awareness, and prayer helps children develop genuine self-control.
A father introduces a storytelling framework for navigating conflict: recognizing that everyone wants to be known and has a purpose, then approaching disagreements with empathy, vulnerability, and an eternal perspective.